For me, I met the father of our child for the first time in July of , a few weeks after I had started stripping. As a new stripper, it was overwhelming enough trying to dance nude. But as I gradually became comfortable with my new gig, I also got to know the quiet man who laughed at my jokes and loved pulled pork sandwiches. He asked for my number after he had spent weeks getting to know me and gauging a mutual interest. I initially declined -- "Let's not ruin a good thing," I told him, and he politely accepted. I wrestled with my decision, and ultimately asked for his number the next time I saw him.
Redditors Tell Us What Happens When You Date a Stripper
What It's Like to Date a Stripper - Strip Club Dating Stories, Relationship Advice
There are two things that basically all men know and understand in this world. But we also know that a healthy percentage of these types are just guys who have not really gotten the opportunity. And for those of you out there living to keep this dream alive, you may be happy to find out that it can be done. To some men, strippers may seem like mythological creatures that you never actually get to be with. But the truth is that this is not necessarily the case. Exotic dancers are people just like the rest of us, and many of them want to date and have relationships too.
Men Confess: I'm Dating A Stripper And This Is What It's Really LIke
So you've spotted a beautiful woman who you'd love to date. But if she's an exotic dancer, that complicates things. There are lots of stereotypes you need to be aware of and ignore before you make your move, or else you'll ruin your chances of ever getting to know her better.
Strippers, in theory and according to pop culture, are said to have a sort of magical prowess in bed, with the added benefits of a lap or pole dance before and after having sex. Not only that, they seem to be considered as a trophy of sorts. The catch, however, is that no matter how impressive the idea of dating a stripper is, the reality is that not many people see it as a normal occurrence — or even respectable. We looked into what people had to say on Reddit about their personal experiences, and we had no idea that there was a full spectrum of opinions on the subject. Note: The comments have been compressed.