When I married I knew that my partner had partaken in sexual experiences with men. As a teenager he had experimented with other teenagers, and then continued dabbling as a young man. After all, , I thought, his father is gay, his parents divorced when he was three, his mother on her third husband; he must have been sexually confused. All good. We fell in love and we married, had two kids, a dog and two cats.
Your partner suddenly disclosed their real gender?
My Husband Coming Out As Bisexual Changed My Lifefor the Better - The Good Men Project
If you buy something through one of the links, I may earn a commission at NO extra cost to you. Let me explain opens in a new tab. Suddenly your world has been turned upside down and you may feel barely able to function. For me, everyone is equal. And equality has to be a given — not a right somehow granted or earned! And ultimately, to help you figure out how you can both move forward again.
Given a choice, what would you choose: an American-style waffle drizzled with luxurious Belgian chocolate sauce, topped with chocolate brownie chunks or a nice crumbly sweet, chocolate mousse cheesecake pie served with a scoop of vanilla ice cream? What if you like both? Similarly for bisexual, choosing between men and women is difficult. They like both. But can you accept bisexuality in your close family?
Recently my husband of 18 years has explored his sexuality with other men. He admitted having four sexual encounters with random men he solicited from Craigslist. After a week of hell, and many a shouting match, he begged me to take him back, claiming that his experimentation is not worth losing his family. As in a textbook scenario, he, somehow, convinced himself that I, being very liberal and supportive of gay community, would understand, and maybe even approve, his urges.